The Japanese have a saying, "Fix the problem, not the blame". Find out what's fucked up and fix it. Nobody gets blamed. We're always after who fucked up. Their way is better.
Sir Sean Connery - Capt. John Connor

“Are you blameshifting?!”
Julia Roberts - Samantha Barzel

“If we forgive our fathers, what is left?”
Evan Adams - Thomas Builds-the-Fire

“- Faith Corvatch: Why couldn't we just have arranged marriages in America?
- Kate: Yeah, at least you could spend the rest of your life blaming your parents instead of yourself.”
Marisa Tomei - Faith Corvatch
Bonnie Hunt - Kate

“- Father Brian Kilkenney Finn: You're a Sikh, Catholic Muslim with Jewish in-laws?
- Indian Bartender: Yes. Yes. It gets very complicated. I'm reading Dianetics.
- Father Brian Kilkenney Finn: Don't blame you.”
Edward Norton - Father Brian Finn
Brian George - Indian Bartender